Tuesday
Finding Riverlogic in Conflict and Communication: Interview with Denise Blanc, MA
A Shambhala Blog Post
Denise Blanc, MA teaches, coaches, and writes at the intersection of mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and conflict transformation. Her new book is Riverlogic: Tools to Transform Resistance and Create Flow in all of our Relationships.
In this interview, Denise discusses how she drew inspiration from Pema Chödrön, other Buddhist teachers, and her diverse professional training in writing Riverlogic, and how we can bring openness and fluidity into our communication, relationships, and lives.
What inspired you to write Riverlogic?
My inspiration to write Riverlogic began several years after having named my consulting practice “River Logic Partners.” The name originated from something Pema Chödrön said in a talk she gave many years back. She had described how we sometimes operate with that she called “rock logic” where we become rigid, righteous, and fundamentalist in our thinking. We are immoveable – kind of like a rock. She contrasted this with what she called “water logic,” where we become more open, adaptable, and fluid. I played with water words and decided to name my newly formed business “River Logic Partners.”
Pema Chödrön contrasted rigid, righteous “rock logic” with open, adaptable, and fluide “water logic.”
Upon taking the name “Riverlogic,” I felt I needed to unpack what river logic meant for me and my work. The power of the metaphor was an invitation to explore interpersonal communication and leadership, which have been my primary work throughout my career as a coach, facilitator, and mediator – but now through the lens of the river metaphor.
Since I wanted to explore how we can make the shift from being rigid to being open and adaptable, the metaphor of the river provided a provocative and powerful model since the river overcomes endless obstacles, adapting to whatever route proves possible to reach their destination – and then rivers are motivated to flow!
My exploration led into me to write about 20 blog articles, which I unrealistically had thought could just easily become a book. It was not that easy and took me about five more years! My goal was to write a small, pithy book which was practical, and that provided tools and practices but also inspiration.
Continuing reading on the Shambhala Blog.
Entries filed under Featured Stories
Tours on Death Row – HIGHLIGHT
Shambhalian Jampa Pawo writes to us from prison, sharing the experience of visits by prison tour groups by Jampa Pawo Dear Shambhala Brothers and Sisters, Here on death row, we are frequently visited by tour groups. These tour groups usually visit the prison once a week, sometimes they come ... continuePosted April 18, 2016 by CGH
Meal Blessings and Great Eastern Sun – HIGHLIGHT
A natural foods chef looks at how meal blessings can fundamentally change our relationship to food, and help repair our relationship to the natural world by Marcella Friel Several months ago, I was visiting a dear sangha friend who read to me the following excerpt from Acharya ... continuePosted April 10, 2016 by CGH
Connecting with Copiapo – HIGHLIGHT
During the Chilean Garchen, the Sakyong made an especially strong heart-connection with a group from Copiapo by Pablo Coddou Copiapo Nestled in the stunningly beautiful Atacama desert of the north, this small yet potent sangha found itself at the front lines of a devastating natural disaster, with an amazing ... continuePosted April 8, 2016 by CGH
Sakyong Speaks in Santiago – HIGHLIGHT
The Sakyong attracts large crowds at two talks in Santiago during his visit to Chile by Pablo Coddou After the South America Garchen concluded, the Sakyong spent a couple of days exploring the magical port city of Valparaiso. He then went to Santiago for the two final events ... continuePosted April 6, 2016 by CGH
Transformation is Possible – HIGHLIGHT
With his execution date now set for April 27, practitioner Jampa Pawo sends this letter to his brothers and sisters in Shambhala by Jampa Pawo Painting by Jampa Pawo Hello! My name is Jampa Pawo. I am 37 years old and have been incarcerated for eighteen years for the ... continuePosted April 4, 2016 by CGH
Special News Releases for April – HIGHLIGHT
Breaking news on climate change submitted by Ira Phlado Glaciers receding in wake of meditative upswing Climatologists have confirmed that not only is Global Warming a true phenomenon but is in fact a man-made occurrence. The gradual increase in the average temperature of the Earth’s atmosphere and its oceans is ... continuePosted April 1, 2016 by CGH
Wealth and Community: Part I – HIGHLIGHT
An exploration of how wealth and prosperity are linked to community and openness by Layth Matthews Consciously or sub-consciously, wealth in our world is synonymous with legitimacy and success. And yet, even material wealth is not just one thing. Is it higher net worth? or higher income? And higher ... continuePosted March 30, 2016 by CGH
New Dawn for Business in Austin – HIGHLIGHT
An invitation to participate in the Awake Business Conference, coming in the spring of 2017 by Iektje Stephens The year of the Fire Monkey will be a busy year for the Shambhala community in Texas as we prepare for the Awake Business Conference. This will take place from March ... continuePosted March 27, 2016 by iektje
Remembering Don Owen – HIGHLIGHT
September 19, 1931-February 21, 2016 by Donald Eckler, with love and admiration On Milarepa Day, February 21, film-maker, poet, painter, father, and magnificent creative force Don Owen died in Toronto, at the age of eighty-four. Don was one of the original members of the Toronto Dharmadhatu when it began in ... continuePosted March 25, 2016 by CGH
Simple Morning – HIGHLIGHT
A Shambhalian responds to a friend who asked her to write about how to have a simple morning. by Sarah Lipton Sunshine peeks in the window earlier now. Spring is not yet here in Vermont, but it is coming soon, I can feel it in the tender increase ... continuePosted March 21, 2016 by CGH
Making Diversity Personal – HIGHLIGHT
A Shambhala Center responds to the death of a black teenager in their neighborhood, killed by a white police officer. by Shastri Mark Blumenfeld and Miriam Hall On March 6, 2015, Tony Robinson, a nineteen-year-old black teenager, was fatally shot two blocks from the Madison Shambhala Center. This ... continuePosted March 19, 2016 by CGH
Caregiving as a Spiritual Discipline – HIGHLIGHT
Discipline, a paramita that packs a surprise for caregivers by Marsha Weiner and Andrea Sherman When we started this series on dharma tools for caregivers, our exploration included the paramitas, those transcendent qualities of the heart, and whether they could guide us away from the shore of caregiver ... continuePosted March 15, 2016 by CGH
Crossing Into New Territory – HIGHLIGHT
A Shambhalian caregiver shares his personal experience of caring for his parents during their passages through dementia, illness and death by Larry Barnett I knew we’d crossed into new territory when my father called me at midnight. “Where are you? I thought we were having lunch today,” he ... continuePosted March 13, 2016 by CGH
No Big Deal – HIGHLIGHT
Non-judgment as a dharma tool for caregivers by Marsha Weiner and Andrea Sherman In an earlier article in this series on dharma tools for caregivers we delved into a quote from Trungpa Rinpoche: “Don’t give up on anyone.” We uncovered its special application for caregivers: don’t give up on ... continuePosted March 11, 2016 by CGH
A Million Miles Away – HIGHLIGHT
Reflections on a Shambhala Training retreat at the Karmê Chöling land center by Michal George The time I recently spent at Karmê Chöling in Vermont taking Shambhala Training Levels I–III was so filled with teaching and opportunities to practice that I left the center with the sense I had ... continuePosted March 9, 2016 by CGH
RSS feed for the Featured Stories category
View all posts from authors in Featured Stories: Jillian_Johnson